A 19th-century midwestern woman’s reflections on her role in society Celestia Rice Colby; born in Ohio in 1827; had lifestyle options that were relatively straightforward for the typical white female child born in the first half of the nineteenth century: she married in 1848; had five children; spent much of her life working as a dairy farmer and housewife; and died in 1900. Her rich legacy; however; extended beyond her children and grandchildren and survived in the form of detailed and reflective diaries and writings. Her private and published writings show that despite the appearances of the quintessential normal life; Colby struggled to reconcile her personal hopes and ambitions with the expectations and obligations placed on her by society. Author Tina Stewart Brakebill has woven original research with secondary material to form the fabric of Colby’s life―from her days as the daughter of an Ohio dairy farmer to her relationship with her daughter; a pioneering university professor. What emerges is a multifaceted picture of one woman’s lifelong struggle to establish her own identity within the confines of society’s proscriptions. Colby’s life story offers valuable insights that move beyond conventional generalizations regarding women of the past and that continue to affect the study of women today.
#883510 in Books Caryll Houselander 2008-04-01Original language:EnglishPDF # 1 6.99 x .46 x 5.14l; .38 #File Name: 087061245X192 pagesThis War Is the Passion
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful. He is alive today as He was in WWIIBy JimRWe too have been in prolonged war;full of anxiety;sorrow;and deprivation. Christ in His humanity showed us how to cope with these unpleasant changes through His life ;death and Resurrection. Houselander;a woman; an artist and mystic writes in plain English using examples of every day happenings. She is most noted for seeing Christ in those around us. We cannot know the outcome to war but we can be on a path to eternal life; which is the goal for all Christians. If you like C. S. Lewis writings you will see the comparison in style ;rhetoric;and theology.9 of 9 people found the following review helpful. BrilliantBy JasonIf you suffer in life you will love this book. Caryll Houselander's words touch to the heart. She had a deep understanding of the Passion of Christ during her time of suffering in the war; but she also applies it to everyday suffering to everyone who is a Christian struggling to carry their crosses in this world. I highley recommend this book to everyone!!God bless17 of 17 people found the following review helpful. Some beautiful insightsBy AquinasThis is a beautiful little book (replete with poetic and mystical passages of real beauty and full of joy). It is not a classic (as her book the "Reed of God" most surely is) - it was her first book after all. But I think what marks her work out is a kind of intimacy - she knows what it means to be a friend of God - she is kind of tough and zany version of St Terese of Lisieux without the sentimentality. Not only is it an important spiritual work it gives a real insight into life in wartime London.Again; I wish to thank again Fr James V Schall for recommending Houselander as; but for him and indeed Dom Hugh Gilbert I would never have come across her and she does appear to be a spiritual master. But why is she so good - because like all great spiritual writers she has an understanding of the great mysteries as of in some way she inhabits them. Even so; I suppose I was a little surprised to her reaction to her forthcoming death from cancer - I suppose I expected she would great her death with a kind of joy but she freely admits she would rather stay behind. In a way this showed me how holy persons really differ depending on their individuality - for example; all that people like St Ignatius of Antioch want is to be with the Lord. As a dying person; who has undergone a fair bit of suffering; I too can understand this desire to see the face of God; which surpasses all things.But let me give some extracts to who why this is a good book. In this extract; she understands precisely the extent of Christ's identification with us and the need for sacrificial love:"All of us can literally imitate him in the wholeness of sacrifice; in offering all that we are - and that; stripped of our selfishness - to God; as an act of adoration to God and of love for one another". "If Christ is growing in you; you are growing towards sacrifice...in real sacrifice there is joy which surpasses all other joys; it is the crescendo and culmination of love...it means a whole attention; a whole concentration; a whole donation".Here she tells us not to be fussily pious:"Don't be an expert in spiritual life. Treat Christ as the real person that he is; don't fuss and worry about your soul"And; she knows of intimacy with Christ:"Christ asks for a home in your soul; where he can be at rest with you; where he can talk easily to you; where you and he. Alone together; can laugh and be silent and be delighted with one another. ...Forget yourself; forget your soul; let him tell you how he loves you; show what he is like; prove to you that he is real... he asks only one thing; that you will let him tell you this; directly; simply; that you will treat him as someone real; not as someone who does not really exist...Christ is God's Word; saying to the world: "I love you...every moment has been a self-donation to you".And she really understands how Christ communes with us:"We are one body; Christ. His life in us is like the bloodstream in the body; a torrent which flows through the whole body into each part continually".And she knows how important that Liturgy and rhythm is for man:"The rhythm of the liturgical year is a natural expression of man's life in Christ. It is like the days and the nights; like waking and sleeping; like the procession from childhood to resurrection...the rhythm of the liturgical year is a natural expression of man's life in Christ. It is like the days and the nights; like waking and sleeping; like the procession from childhood to resurrection. At Christmas; Christ is born in us. At Passiontide; he suffers and dies in us." And rhythm is the key: "Rhythm makes the soul as responsive to God's will as the flowers; as ready to open at a touch and shine out with his spendour; or to close and relax into absolute peace" "From all this it is evident that rhythmic prayer must be pleasing to God; that he has has designed everything; to work to a rhythmic law; that we do really fulfil his will in is only when we are in harmony with his great rhythm" Why was she not a Benedictine Oblate rather than a third order Franciscan?And she understands the need for adoration in the heart of man:"Adoration is necessary to man; his heart must adore or die; men fallen away from God adore - or idolize - power; State; machinery; anything that seems bigger than themselves; to combine mystery with might".And she understands how we may be called to suffer:"But trust does not mean believing that God will spare us from suffering. It means believing that if God lets is suffer it is because there good for us in it; it is always an expression of his love; and even out of sin; which is evil in itself; good can come". "To try to avoid suffering is iseless; for the seed of it is in the human heart". "It is the doctrine of suffering which distinguishes Christianity from every other religion; from every other school of thought" I would add here that it is supremely in Catholicism that it is best understood as building up the body of Christ - no doubt Houselander would have appreciated John Paul II's apostolic letter on suffering: "Salvifici doloris" Indeed she pre-empts it; "My personal suffering can lighten the world's sprrpw; by redeeming the world's sin...Through Christ; suffering has become; not an evil to be avoided at all costs; but a thing to be accepted willingly ; even joyfully; as a means of sharing in the redemption of the world." As a practical point; I would be interested to know how the practical impact of the suffering caused by cancer impacted on her thoughts on this.And like St Therese of Lisieux she knows that God is to be found in the small things and doing the small things with love:"we learn at last to realise that waking; eating; loving and sleeping are the supreme prayers that we pray in so far as we concentrate our whole selves; all our love; into God's will for us; and his will is first of all that we live as human creatures; that we rise and work and ear and love and sleep".But where she is the master is in seeing Christ in everyone:"For we can learn Christ not only from the gospels; but from every single person with whom we come in contact".And she teaches us to contemplate:"To practise is this - you look at Christ until you become like him; just as by looking at the sun you become golden like the sun. You touch his wounds; and from them you learn the measure of his love. You share the experience of his passion with him; until through living with his love you become one with him".Anyway what can one say but that this book is full of little paragraphs which are worthy of meditation - she simply radiates Christ as only a lover of Christ could!
